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Forgiving Is For You – Not Them

So many times in our lives things happen that we have to forgive. The hangup comes for survivors of sexual or domestic violence when we equate forgiveness with acceptance of the wrong done to us. So let’s talk about that first. To be clear, when we forgive someone we are not saying that what they […]

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Standing in Daylight

Denial takes many forms, and I’ve yet to see one that is of real benefit. The denial after trauma – sexual assault, domestic violence, or otherwise – may be good “for the moment” because it helps get us through the trauma and into the light of day. Soldiers need it to get through seeing their […]